Thursday, December 31, 2009

A Blessing for the New Year


As you enter the New Year, may the Living Lord go with you.
May He go behind you, to encourage you,
Beside you, to befriend you,
Above you, to watch over you,
Beneath you, to lift you from your sorrows,
Within you, to give you the gifts of faith, hope, and love,
And always before you, to show you the way.

--Adapted from an old benediction


MaryMartha


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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Once In a Blue Moon

The last time there was a "blue moon" on New Year's Eve was in 1990 and there won't be one again until 1028. (It makes a great New Year's party theme!) According to popular definition—there is an older, more complicated, nineteenth-century one—a blue moon is the second Full Moon to occur in a single calendar month. (It isn't really blue!)The moon was full in 2009 on December 2, and will be again on the 31st. On average, a blue moon occurs about every two and a half years, so the expression "once in a blue moon" means only once in a great while!

Although I find these facts interesting, what really impresses me is the precise orderliness of this universe God created. The occurrence of those blue moons can be predicted to within a few seconds for the next hundred years or so—long enough for most of us to care! Why should He give attention to such exacting details, except that He was preparing us a good place to live! "And God said, 'Let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark seasons and days and years." "The moon marks off the seasons, and the sun knows when to go down." (Genesis 1:14; Psalm 104:19) NIV

I am with the Psalmist who says,

When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,
what is man that you are mindful of him,
the son of man that you care for him?

You made him a little
lower than the heavenly beings
and crowned him with glory and honor.

You made him ruler over
the works of your hands;
you put everything under his feet:
all flocks and herds,
and the beasts of the field,
the birds of the air,
and the fish of the sea,
all that swim the paths of the seas.

O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
Psalm 8:3-9

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.

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Monday, December 28, 2009

Room for the New


For many people, the ending of the present year and the approach of the new signals a time for assessing one's progress—or the lack thereof. I suppose that if I were to gather all my old plans from years past and all the resolutions I was not successful at keeping, I would be overwhelmed! I could not possibly consider adding any new plans or goals because I would be so busy trying to re-do something from the past.

There is something to be said for persistence and for making another attempt at a previous goal. We must take into consideration, though, whether or not the old plan or aim is still appropriate. Does it fit our present life? Children outgrow their clothes, toys, and playroom furniture; sometimes we adults outgrow an ambition or a need or even a relationship. Trying to force ourselves into feeling the way we once did is something like trying to force a six-year-old to enjoy the rattle he liked when he/she was a few months old. Attempting to force-fit our lives into something we've outgrown is like trying to force the child into shoes that are too small. They simply don't fit any longer.

Is it failure to lay aside temporarily something we once thought was important—or even to give up on it entirely? Not necessarily. We can give our best attention to only a certain number of things. Circumstances change, and priorities can change. What was top-of-the-list a few years ago may be further down now, perhaps still on the list but not above everything else. We may decide that reading with the children comes before an immaculate house, and paying off the credit cards is more important than buying a new car but not as necessary as "Y" membership, and so on.

The coming of the New Year is a good time to re-evaluate our priorities. Let's not be bogged down with old plans so that we can leave room for the new!

MaryMartha
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Friday, December 25, 2009

He Has Come!


Centuries before it came to pass, the prophets were foretelling the coming of the Messiah, God's anointed one. Isaiah declared, "The people who walk in darkness will see a great light. For those who live in a land of deep darkness, a light will shine . . . For a child is born to us, a son is given to us . . . And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Jeremiah prophesied, " 'For the time is coming,' says the Lord, 'when I will raise up a righteous descendant from King David’s line. He will be a King who rules with wisdom. He will do what is just and right throughout the land. And this will be his name: The Lord Is Our Righteousness.' " And although Isaiah also said, "He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities," few people of Israel seemed to recognize that Jesus was coming not to be a military deliverer but a Savior. Why did the nation of Israel, God's own people, need a Savior?

For hundreds of years, they had been governed by the law God had given to them through Moses. Sometimes they kept that law, many times they did not. But God promised, "The time is coming when I will make a new covenant with them. I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people." Israel needed a Savior so that obedience to God would be an inner response of the heart."

Israel needed a Savior because they were separated from God by sin. Mary may have been one of the first to know that, although she could hardly comprehend her part in the plan. The angel told her, "You will bring forth a son and shall call his name Jesus." That name literally means "savior." And an angel also told Joseph very specifically, "Mary will bring forth a son and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins."

People today need peace and light too, as much as anyone ever has. We come from a long line of sinners, ever since Adam and Eve. Yes, and we have all personally sinned too. We need a Savior in order to have relationship with God.

In the Scripture, we are told of some who, even though they knew the truth about why Jesus had come, were reluctant to accept Him fully and some did not receive Him at all. Why did they hesitate?

Nicodemus visited Jesus at night; He may have been afraid of what the other Jewish rulers would think of his seeking spiritual answers. The rich young ruler turned away because he was did not want to face the cost. The woman with the issue of blood must have been embarrassed by all the "nice," ordinary people around her, even though her situation wasn't her fault. But she was also desperate, and pressed through to Jesus. The prodigal son was only in a parable, but it was his own fault he ended up in a dirty pig pen. He was deep into selfish sinning until there wasn't any way out except to go home. And some people hesitate because they don't know how bad off they are! Lazarus couldn't help himself; he had to have Jesus come on the scene to bring him back to life before his friends could unwind the grave clothes and set him free to live again.


We also hesitate for many of the same reasons. We are bound by what people think, or we are afraid of the cost. We are embarrassed, or we are ashamed, especially if we feel like what we've done and where we've been makes us too bad to come to Jesus. And it's true for us, as well, that we often don't realize our own need. No matter why we hesitate, the Father is waiting for us to come to Him.
Jesus came to us, so that we could come to the Father. "Home" for Christmas!


MaryMartha

Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. United States of America. All rights reserved.

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Thursday, December 24, 2009

The Government on His Shoulders

"For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. His government and its peace will never end." (Isaiah 9:6, 7)

If there are things about our government that trouble you, if you worry about our posture as a nation, if you fret about the world's "isms"—terrorism, humanism, socialism, and so on—remember that government finally rests and surely upon the shoulders of our God. For a time, He has given authority to the rulers of the world's nations, and eventually their rule will be over. His government will never end, but come to its full revelation when "at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." (Philippians 2:10, 11) Until then, don't be afraid!

Martin Luther wrote the great Reformation hymn, "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God." One of the verses says, "That word [the name, Jesus] above all earthly powers—no thanks to them—abideth. The Spirit and the gifts are ours through Him who with us sideth. Let goods and kindred go, this mortal life also. The body they may kill; God's truth abideth still. His Kingdom is forever!"

Rejoice! The Savior, Redeemer, Governor has come!

MaryMartha

Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. United States of America. All rights reserved.


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Monday, December 21, 2009

The Coming of Light

The occurrence of the winter solstice in the Northern Hemisphere (December 21 this year) may have had, centuries ago, something to do with the choice of December 25 for the celebration of Christmas. We are pretty sure that date is not actually Jesus' birthday, and some people object to the secular—and even pagan—origins of this special holiday. Sun worshippers rejoiced on" the birthday of the unconquered sun," as on this shortest day of the year, the sun reaches its southernmost point in relation to the earth and begins what we see as its reverse journey. Thereafter, the days become longer and nights shorter, leading to the recognition that the sun is "reborn."


But early Christian writers took back the festival from the pagan worshippers! Cyprian, a 3rd century African bishop wrote, "O, how wonderfully acted Providence that on that day on which that Sun was born...Christ should be born." John Chrysostom, Bishop of Constantinople in the 4th century said, "They call it the 'Birthday of the Unconquered'. Who indeed is so unconquered as Our Lord . . .?"


“Arise, Jerusalem! Let your light shine for all to see. For the glory of the Lord rises to shine on you. Darkness as black as night covers all the nations of the earth, but the glory of the Lord rises and appears over you. All nations will come to your light; mighty kings will come to see your radiance." (Isaiah 60:1-3) "The Word [Christ] gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. The one who is the true light, who gives light to everyone, was coming into the world. (John 1:4, 5, 9)


I am not a sun-worshipper, but I am always glad for the sun's "returning." I am a Son-worshipper and forever grateful for the True Light whose coming I celebrate at Christmas!


MaryMartha


Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. United States of America. All rights reserved.

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Saturday, December 19, 2009

"This Is a Test"

You've heard the radio announcers say it: "The following is a test of the emergency alert system. This is only a test." Had there been an actual emergency, we would have been given further instructions, but since it was only a test, we just waited for regular programming to be resumed.

Our daily lives are not equipped with such warnings about a test. We think we know testing when it comes—some difficult person, a distasteful task, a hard-to-solve problem. Testing is often presented in those ways, but sometimes it comes to us in a less recognizable form, and we find ourselves unprepared. "Fire tests the purity of silver and gold, but a person is tested by being praised. (Proverbs 27:21) How we react to our "fifteen minutes of fame" is very telling. It is a test.

If you read the newspaper, listen to the news, or even just look around, you can see examples of people who worked very hard to earn their prominent place in business, politics, or religion. Difficulty did not stop them, criticism did not faze them, sacrifice did not discourage them. But when they got to the top, praise and its companions felled them. Adulation, popularity, power, and the money that frequently accompany these, were more than they could handle.

Must we then avoid those things which might make us "important"? No, not necessarily. Just remember, "This is a test." It is, after all, not so much what we have done. Scripture tells us it is God "who brought us out of Egypt," God who "arms us with strength," God who "removes mountains," and God who "avenges us." It is God alone who judges, bringing down one and exalting another. It is God who justifies, God who shows mercy, God who enables us to stand firm. One has only to read the history of the Israelites to see what happened/happens to those who forget the source of their success—and fail the test.

MaryMartha

Scripture quotation taken from The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. United States of America. All rights reserved.

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Friday, December 18, 2009

A Consistent Message


It never fails to impress me when I find the ways in which the Scripture "holds together." For over ten years, my regular Bible reading has been from one version or another of the "One Year Bible." These are daily portions of Scripture from the Old Testament, the New Testament, the Psalms and Proverbs, arranged so that one reads the entire Bible in a year. I admit that until I began using these Bibles, I had never read the Bible clear through in any organized way. With plans that take the reader straight through the Book, I always bogged down around Leviticus!

It is a special delight when I find the Old Testament thought is repeated in the New Testament or the Psalms on the very same day. It's then that I think, "It's the same message no matter what part of the Bible you read!" This morning I read prophecy, "For this is what the Sovereign LORD says: I myself will search for my sheep and look after them. As a shepherd looks after his scattered flock when he is with them, so will I look after my sheep. I will rescue them from all the places where they were scattered on a day of clouds and darkness . . . I myself will tend my sheep and have them lie down, declares the Sovereign LORD. I will search for the lost and bring back the strays. I will bind up the injured and strengthen the weak. (Ezekiel 34:11-16) Then the fulfillment, "May the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd of the sheep, equip you with everything good for doing his will, and may he work in us what is pleasing to him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen." (Hebrews 13:20, 21)

When Jesus taught the two men walking to Emmaus, He began with Moses and the Prophets and expounded to them in all the Scriptures the things about Himself. Philip preached Jesus to the Ethiopian eunuch as they rode together in the chariot, using the passage from Isaiah which the official had been reading. (Luke 24:27; Acts 8:35) The message of love and salvation and hope is throughout the whole Book!

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.

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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Things Mama Taught Me: Look After Each Other


I don't remember taking care of my younger brothers, but I do remember holding the baby sister. For years, my older brothers who can recall those "babysitting" days, have without mercy reminded me about my preference for reading over tending to the baby flopped over my knees. "Won't someone come get this miserable baby?" I pleaded. Miserable indeed! They won't let me forget!

Any family that has more than a couple or three children usually has to enlist the older ones to help watch the younger ones. What is true for our natural families is hugely important in the wider context of the "household of faith" and beyond that to the community at large. The Apostle Paul wrote "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers." (Galatians 6:10) It is easy to give generously to "family," our own loved ones and those who share our faith. But what about the "all people"?

Shall I give something to the ragged, shivering man at the mall exit? Shall I agree to add something to my grocery bill for the food warehouse? Shall I stuff a bill through the slot of the bell-ringer's bucket? Shall I buy cookbooks that I don't need or greeting cards that are ugly or magazines I won't read because some young person wants to go to camp or has to help buy band instruments? I think Paul was not binding us to a requirement to give to every one who expresses a need (or a wish, for that matter). "Let us do good," he said, as an encouragement to be a generous, unwearied giver. And perhaps we need to be reminded that doing good consists of more than a few dollars here and there. John Wesley said, "Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can." There are many ways of doing good—even sometimes withholding the easy handout.

Good stewardship of the resources God has entrusted to each of us requires us to assess each situation, not in a protracted, rigid manner but with openness considering it before deciding yes or no. It need not be a long, painful process. Giving is meant to be a joyful thing! It's how we look after each other.

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Things Mama Taught Me: "Don't Play with Fire"

My parents were super-careful about the use of fire, and were vigilant about teaching us the same. Their caution paid off for they never had a serious fire in our home or on the farm. (The rural schoolhouse did burn down, but they had no responsibility for that incident.)

They were very cautious about other things that they must have considered to be "fire" too. It was as if they had been instructed—and passed on to us—"Don't play with fire. Don't have feelings of anger or sexual interest or self-esteem. These things will destroy you." Such feelings when properly channeled don't destroy us; in fact, repressing them will likely do more harm. Just as fire has great benefits for our lives, so do our emotions. Fire must be managed and controlled, as do emotions. Some people are—perhaps my own parents were—as afraid of their angry feelings and their sexuality and their self-interest as they would be of a fire, but that is not what the Bible teaches.

The Scripture plainly tells us that the tongue is a flame of fire. "It only takes a spark, remember, to set off a forest fire. A careless or wrongly placed word out of your mouth can do that. By our speech we can ruin the world, turn harmony to chaos, throw mud on a reputation, send the whole world up in smoke and go up in smoke with it, smoke right from the pit of hell." (James 3:5, 6 MSG) James also says that we are prone to stumble in many ways, but the person who is never at fault in what he says is able to keep his whole body in check. That makes me wonder if we are missing something when we claim about some weakness we have, "I just can't help it." Perhaps our basic indiscretion is what we are saying.

No man can tame the tongue—that's James speaking again. The Apostle Paul reminds us, though, "Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt." (Colossians 4:6 NASB) We need to bring God into our use of the "flame of fire" tongue, so that it does not burn out of control and damage the lives of those around us—and burn us as well while we are playing with it.

MaryMartha

Scripture marked MSG is taken from The Message. Copyright © 2003 by Eugene H. Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group. Scripture marked NASB is from the New American Standard Bible, used by permission of The Lockman Foundation,
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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Santa Claus and the Like



One of my blogging friends has expressed some regret that she led her children to believe in Santa Claus because now she considers that she lied to them. I wrote in reply, "When I was growing up, we loved Santa Claus, knowing he was in the same category as other fun things like rabbits who talk (in Peter Cottontail) and the "dish fairy" who surprised my Mom when she got home and found that somehow—almost by magic—the dishes had been washed and dried. "Oh, the dish fairy has been here!" she would exclaim with delight, and I would just giggle because I knew who the "dish fairy" was! We didn't feel anyone lied to us about Santa Claus, but enjoyed the pretending, understanding that it was just that."

Maybe Santa Claus—even pretending—is not part of your Christmas. Or there may be some readers who do not celebrate Christmas at all. I respect our differences, so if you wish, just ignore the remainder of this post. I want to quote a long-lasting bit of tradition. Over a hundred years ago, little Virginia O'Hanlon wrote to the editor of New York's Sun:

Dear Editor: I am 8 years old.
Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus.
Papa says, "If you see it in THE SUN it's so."
Please tell me the truth; is there a Santa Claus?

The response was printed on September 21, 1897, the work of newsman Francis Pharcellus Church, and has since become the most reprinted newspaper editorial ever, appearing in part or its entirety in dozen of languages in books, movies, other editorials, and on posters and stamps.

I am not sure the eight-year-old could understand the literate, abstract reply. But we can. " . . .Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! How dreary would be the world if there were not Santa Claus. It would be as dreary as if there were no Virginias . . . "

That is echoed in a recent article published in the "Parade" supplement to many Sunday newspapers. Popular author Alexander McCall Smith wrote that there are times when we need to pretend to believe in things that we actually know not to be true. The world is often a place of suffering and difficulty, and justice and kindness and love do not always prevail against these hard realities. "Myths help us to get by," he says. So don't be embarrassed if you want to "believe" in Santa. He stands for kindness and generosity and goodwill, and these things will continue to be alive as long as we believe in them.

MaryMartha

Interesting reading alert!
A copy of the Sun editorial is located at http://www.newseum.org/yesvirginia/

Smith's article is at http://www.parade.com/news/2009/12/13-why-we-should-believe-in-santa-claus.html

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Grace and Truth


"The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth." (John 1:14)

Many times I have read the poems or essays, "If Jesus Had Not Come." Much of the world's great art, music, and literature would not have been produced. Higher education would not have had its auspicious start. Fewer hospitals, nursing homes, and programs for the needy would exist. There might be mosques and temples, but there would be no Christian churches. Without the beneficial Gospel teachings of love and forgiveness, how far down might society sink?

But I have been thinking, what if Jesus had come only as the bearer of truth, without the accompanying grace? "God is love—sorry about your being on the outside." Suppose that the whole message of the New Testament was that of accusation? "You have transgressed the law of God, and He is really, really mad!"

How awful that would be! Enmeshed in our own selfishness and sin, truth alone would leave us hopeless. Jesus brought grace as well! He explained that indeed God is love, but He extends it to all, regardless of whether they are willing to receive it. "Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God." (John 1:12) Grace opened the way for relationship with the Heavenly Father.

Jesus came to rescue us from futile attempts to satisfy an angry God. He explained things so simply for us: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind . . . Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." Grace made the way for us to live at peace.

What a gift—grace and truth embodied in the Lord Jesus who came to show it to us! "We have seen his glory . . . grace and truth."

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.

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Thursday, December 10, 2009

Joys of the Season

Certainly, the most important aspect of the Christmas season is the celebration of Christ's coming to earth. No ordinary birthday, this! And therefore, no ordinary celebration.

I love the music of Christmas. Much of the time while I am at home during December, I am listening—soft instrumental music if I am working at the computer or reading, traditional renditions of both religious and popular music if I am more actively listening while I eat or do the laundry or the dishes. I anticipate attending some special presentations of music too; it has become tradition to see "The Nutcracker" ballet.

I love the lights of Christmas—the lights on my own tree, the lights on the houses up and down the street where I live, the lighted decorations on our downtown streets, the special displays by various organizations.

I love the cards and notes from friends at Christmas; it warms the heart to be remembered. Some of us correspond only once a year, but it is sweet to know that even when we do not write or call, we are still friends across the miles and pray for each others' happiness.

I love the general feeling of goodwill at Christmas. This isn't true everywhere, of course; if one gets caught in a crush of cross shoppers at the mall, he/she may not be at all convinced about the message of peace on earth! But on the whole, people are generous to others in ways they may not be throughout the year. (They do fill those Salvation Army buckets, after all!)

I love Christmas worship—especially the Christmas Eve candlelight service. It is an especially holy time, full of gratitude for so great a gift as God gave us.

I feel really sorry for those individuals who say, "Christmas? Bah! Humbug!"

MaryMartha


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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Purging

Conventional de-cluttering wisdom says to get rid of anything that you haven't used in a year. Oh my! Once I started on the furniture re-arrangement project, I realized that I had boxes and boxes of stuff that had not been opened in several years; they were waiting quietly for recognition in the room that had become a catch-all, but is now going to have a more useful life. I had a hard time believing that just because I had not opened the boxes meant there was nothing of value in them. Hence the re-organization project with an actual designated place for what I must keep.

I did run across something helpful, notes from some wise person who said, "Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful, or precious." That seems like good advice. Lots of things were no longer useful to me, or even had never been; at one time I thought I needed them but they were still in their original packaging. Not too many things demanding to be kept were visibly beautiful, but some were beautiful expressions of love and understanding. And then there were the precious things: a four-year-old's crayoned drawing for grandma, crosses which I have been intending to display, brought back by friends who visited Belgium and Ireland and Israel, and those
scrapbook pages and photos I mentioned in an earlier post. Even so, I still had the entire rear of my hatchback vehicle filled with goods to be donated. (And I have, in fact, already been there and done that.)

So I've talked about things to keep and things to give away, how about the things to throw away? Oh yes, big bagsful! And I learned something important when it came to that: Some things are not meant to be revisited. There were a bunch of old letters from an erstwhile friend, and I was tempted to put them aside to re-read, but I clearly felt that was not the thing to do. It is hard enough work lifting boxes and sorting through them without adding the burden of remembering a particularly difficult time in my life. "But what if I need . . . ?"

There is a good illustration for this: After a person gets better, he/she doesn't frame the bloody bandages from the accident or gold-plate the crutches used after surgery just in case they might be needed again. "Forgetting the past," the Apostle Paul called it, "and looking forward to what lies ahead." (Philippians 3:13)

MaryMartha

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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Let It Snow!

In spite of what Bing Crosby says, it's not a "marshmallow world"—at least not yet. Nor is it a "winter wonderland." It's just cold and icy and very wet. You would think folks would be expecting this; it's already December, and we are just now getting our first snow. Although some people grumble, this is actually a sign of God's continued presence and providence.

God rules the seasons!


Listen to it! Listen to his thunder, the rolling, rumbling thunder of his voice. He lets loose his lightnings from horizon to horizon, lighting up the earth from pole to pole. In their wake, the thunder echoes his voice, powerful and majestic. He lets out all the stops, he holds nothing back. No one can mistake that voice—His word thundering so wondrously, his mighty acts staggering our understanding. He orders the snow, 'Blanket the earth!' and the rain, 'Soak the whole countryside!' No one can escape the weather—it's there. And no one can escape from God. Wild animals take shelter, crawling into their dens, when blizzards roar out of the north and freezing rain crusts the land. It's God's breath that forms the ice, it's God's breath that turns lakes and rivers solid. And yes, it's God who fills clouds with rainwater and hurls lightning from them every which way. He puts them through their paces—first this way, then that—commands them to do what he says all over the world. Whether for discipline or grace or extravagant love, he makes sure they make their mark. (Job 37:2-13)


Great is God's faithfulness!

Summer and winter, springtime, and harvest,
Sun, moon, and stars in their courses above
Join with all nature in manifold witness
To Thy great faithfulness, mercy and love.

Great is Thy faithfulness!
Great is Thy faithfulness!
Morning by morning, new mercies I see.
All I have needed Thy hand has provided.
Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!
~Thomas O. Chisholm, 1923

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from The Message. Copyright © 2003 by Eugene H. Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group.

Read another post about the seasons: "Summer and Winter, Day and Night" [here].

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Monday, December 7, 2009

No Strings Attached

In my current
stuff-releasing project,
I've given away several items that have considerable intrinsic value but to which I am no longer connected. I assured the intermediary that the stuff was given "with no strings attached," that is, no special demands or limits. I find that is such a relief! There is no need for me to follow up: who is the final recipient, where are they using it, are they using it as carefully as I once did, and so forth.

This being the Christmas giving/entertaining season, I pondered some more about the general concept of no strings attached. One person complained, "I entertained that couple twice in my home, and they have never offered an invitation in return. Don't they know they are supposed to reciprocate?" I wanted to respond, "Well, did you enjoy their company? Did they seem to enjoy yours? Is that not enough?"

There are many reasons why those acquaintances may not have opened their home in return. Things are not always what they seem; perhaps someone in the home is physically or emotionally frail. Perhaps there are serious financial limitations, and they cannot afford anything but essentials. There may be things in the home that need to be repaired or replaced, and they feel embarrassed by the situation. Perhaps they are just ill at ease with entertaining. These may not seem like sufficient reasons, but they are huge to some people.

I could have added, "Or maybe they were naïve enough to think that they were invited to your home because you wanted to have them there. They just didn't catch on that the reason you invited them to your home was so they would invite you to theirs!"

There are some people who want to give only if they are recognized "sufficiently" as givers. Giving to those who do not acknowledge the gift is a touchy subject: Grandchildren who do not say thanks for birthday checks, brides who do not send thank-you notes, waitpersons who are offensive about expecting a tip. Every giver has to decide for himself/herself how to handle these situations. But it would be well to stop and consider, "Why am I giving this? Are there strings attached to this gift? What am I hoping for in return?"

I should confess that I am not really the magnanimous giver that you might think. I am so glad to be getting rid of stuff! But it did make me happy to be able to give some things away, rather than sell them. Maybe I should be paying the recipients for giving my former possessions a good home!

MaryMartha

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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Sorting the Memories

Okay, I was just going to make space to shift some furniture in two different rooms of my home. I didn't intend to get into sorting through stuff, just move some storage boxes into other areas. But hey! How do I know where they are to go if I don't look into them?

Big mistake! I ran across several envelopes of photos I took during trips in the past, along with maps, travel folders, and notes I'd made about our activities. There are also some half-finished and almost-forgotten scrapbook pages which were supposed to incorporate those pictures and memorabilia. It may be time to renew my efforts along that line before I cannot remember who the people are!

There were family photos too. It was a special treat to see my grandchildren at Christmas when they were five and three, and later at seven and five. Kids at Christmas are so much fun! I am ready now to recycle the catalogs and wallpaper sample books from which they created masterpieces when they came to Grandma's house. The days are gone when they were easily entertained with a box of crayons, a scissors and some construction paper!

Not everything I found in the boxes brought back happy thoughts. Sometimes I remembered, "Oh, that was the trip when . . . " or "Wasn't that the year that . . . ?" Memories have to be sorted too. Some need to be kept forever. Others need to be acknowledged and felt but, at the same time, given little opportunity to crowd out the wonderful blessings that make up my past.

MaryMartha


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Friday, December 4, 2009

Things Mama Taught Me: Ask Jesus

I don't remember praying, as a child, for a bicycle or a new coat or to have a friend. I just had confidence that these things would be provided in due time by my parents. But I learned early that there were some things they could not provide for us. For these I must pray for Jesus' help.

I remember an early lesson taught by example. My youngest brother was rather fearful that something would happen to our mother; she would die and leave him alone. He was a very small child, still in
a crib in my parents' bedroom when I heard him say his bedtime prayers as my mother led him. "Now I lay me down to sleep—" then God bless Mama, God bless Daddy, and all the other God blesses he could think of.

"But Mama, what if you die?" I am not sure how he came to have this fear, but living on the farm, we learned early about life and death. It would not be hard to imagine the stiff coldness that happened to a bug or a kitten could also come to someone you loved and on whom you depended.

My mother explained very simply to him, "When your daddy was a little boy, he prayed that his mama would live until he was a grown-up man. And she did. You can ask Jesus for that too."

"God bless Mama. God bless Daddy." All the God blesses he could think of, and then at the end, "And help my Mama live until I get to be a big man. Amen."

And she did.

What happens if a child prays and the answer is "No"? The same thing, on an appropriate level, that happens when you or I pray and the answer is "No." We learn to accept that God is loving, fair, and above all, wise. We learn to trust Him more. We learn to ask with better understanding. We learn to wait and see. We learn to not quit asking.

MaryMartha


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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The Next Right Thing

I was reading the account today of a horrific plane crash in which an airliner, flying at night, smashed into a mountain peak. As the author described the incidents leading up to the accident, determined by investigations afterward, he emphasized that first one little thing went wrong, then another and another, one little mistake followed another, until finally the terrible outcome was inevitable.

What is true of so many tragedies is true also of occasions where we see God's marvelous Providence. We are not faced on an everyday basis with life-changing decisions, but every single day we do encounter little choices and we act in little ways that, if considered all by themselves, are pretty insignificant. But just as surely as a series of small things led to an air disaster, a series of small things can culminate in an amazing positive change in our lives.

Sometimes we are faced with what seems like an impossible situation, or a decision we simply cannot make, or a tangled relationship that overwhelms us. Our dilemma may not call for some huge action or decision undertaken all at once. Many times, perhaps most of the time, we will find our way if we just do the next right thing, even that little thing. The Scripture does not promise us that "The leaps of a good man/woman are ordered by the Lord." Instead, we are assured that the Lord guides our steps, those little decisions and actions taken one at a time.

Just do the next right thing.

MaryMartha


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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

The Gospel According to . . . Whom?

For a long time, we read Oswald Chambers and Dwight L. Moody and E. M. Bounds for inspiration and spiritual instruction. These were really, really serious servants of Jesus Christ! It's with some frequency now that we read or hear a new "take" on what it really means to participate in the Kingdom of God. In 2000, Bruce Wilkinson's book, "The Prayer of Jabez: Breaking Through to the Blessed Life," inspired a host of derivatives: three versions written for children and one for women, a journal, a book of devotions, a Bible study, a musical "worship experience," and a wide array of official merchandise including key chains, mugs, backpacks, Christmas ornaments, scented candles, mouse pads, and jewelry.

Then in 2002, the Christian book world was taken by storm with Rick Warren's "The Purpose-Driven Life." This is it! Read this book as a 40-day personal spiritual journey and find God's five purposes for human life on earth! Discover the blueprint for Christian living in the 21st Century! And this year, Joel Osteen with "Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential." It's not creating big waves, but I recently read, "Sin Bravely: A Joyful Alternative to a Purpose-Driven Life" by Mark Ellingsen, an open (though kindly) rebuttal—with some merit, I might add—of this decade's authors.

So who's right? Well, probably they all are.

What? Really? How could they all be right? Somebody has to be missing it, don't they, because they are all so different; Oswald Chambers and Rick Warren are just not in the same ballpark at all.
What we often fail to understand is that the truths of the Kingdom are like precious gems that catch the light in different ways as they are held one way and then another. Don't misunderstand me; there is but one way into the Kingdom of God. Jesus explained to Nicodemus that one must be born into it. But how Kingdom life is lived out is as varied as the people who make up the Kingdom. No one can claim that he/she understands God best because they worship with "Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, Merciful and Mighty! God in three Persons, blessed Trinity!" The Christian is no less spiritual who chooses to sing, "Open the eyes of my heart, Lord. I want to see You." It is a different facet of wonderful truth.

Jesus Himself exemplified balance in the Gospel message. One time He said, "As long as it is day, we must do the work of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work." (John 9:4) Another time He invited, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) Different people, or the same people at different times, need to hear specific emphases which are different aspects of the same message. For hundreds of years, the Church has found balance through those whose teachings hold up into the light one certain thing or another one.

What an illuminated understanding of the Gospel can be ours if we are open to as many different understandings as are consistent with the Scripture!

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.

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Monday, November 30, 2009

Letting Down Our Wings

I was intrigued the other morning when I read this passage describing Ezekiel's vision. ”As they [four living beings] flew, their wings sounded to me like waves crashing against the shore or like the voice of the Almighty or like the shouting of a mighty army. When they stopped, they let down their wings. As they stood with wings lowered, a voice spoke from beyond the crystal surface above them." (Ezekiel 1:24, 25)

Bees, dragonflies, mosquitoes, and other insects make a great deal of noise with the vibration of their wings, sometimes buzzing very annoyingly. Some birds, too—quails, for example--make a notable whirring sound when they are flushed up from their nests on the ground. Although humans don't have wings, how do you suppose we came up with the expression "busy as a bee"? Surely it must indicate the great stir created as we "fly" from one task to another, first this activity and then the next. We make a great deal of noise, both externally and within, as we buzz about.

The creatures that Ezekiel described ceased their flying about—and it was a most unusual ability that they exhibited—when God was ready to speak. They stood quietly, their wings folded, paying attention. What do you suppose would happen if, on a regular basis, we let down our wings and listened to the voice from above?

MaryMartha

Scripture quotation from The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. United States of America. All rights reserved.
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Friday, November 27, 2009

Things Mama Taught Me: "An Idle Mind Is the Devil's Workshop"

This saying, too, has been around for a long time, although some use the words, "Idle hands . . ." In the early 1600's, W. Perkins' Works warned, "The idle bodie and the idle braine is the shoppe [workshop] of the deuill." T. Fuller in 1732 and H.B. Bohn in 1855 wrote essentially the same thing.

To tell you the truth, I don't remember whether my mother said "hands" or "brain," and I really had little idea what the words meant. I did know the meaning, however, in Mama-speak. If I complained about being bored, my mother would reply, "Very well, I can give you something to do." No thanks, Mama. I'll find something. Anything would be better than scrubbing the outhouse or ironing my brothers' overalls.

Idleness might be described as a vacuum of sorts, and boredom one expression of it. "Nature abhors a vacuum," Aristotle claimed, meaning that empty space sucks in gases or liquid to avoid remaining empty. The same may be said of minds, and hands too for that matter. If not given something to fill them in a beneficial way, they will "suck in" all sorts of inventive stuff. If you have been around small children very much, you know this is true! Things are quiet in the next room—too quiet. The minds and hands with little to do have found something of interest: cutting the cat's hair (or their own), unrolling tissue into the toilet, climbing on top of the refrigerator to reach the cabinet containing goodies.

Older children, teens, and adults are not all that different. Not given something productive to consider, our minds tend to wander off in unfruitful directions and the hands and feet follow. We are urged by the Apostle Paul not merely to avoid unprofitable contents in our minds or to create a vacuum there, but actually to fill them up with what is good. "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." (Philippians 4:8) No workshop for the devil there!

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.
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Thursday, November 26, 2009

A Few More of My Favorite Things

This is Thanksgiving Day in the U.S., and I am grateful for so much!


Plenty to eat and clean water to use,
Days of vacation to spend as I choose,
Friends as we worship and everyone sings;
These are a few of my favorite things.


Steaming hot coffee in my special mug,
A place for my toes on a soft, fuzzy rug,
The clock on the wall as each hour it rings;
These are a few of my favorite things.


Books with blank pages, a red car that runs,The warm, yeasty smell of fresh cinnamon buns,
A card in the mailbox, the sweet thoughts it brings;
These are a few of my favorite things.




A little piano with black and white keys,
My big easy chair and a robe for my knees,
Grandchildren's hugs and their love without strings;
These are a few of my favorite things.


Sausage on muffins, fresh wax on the floor,
A good book to read, and a wreath for my door,
Late-blooming roses and birds with bright wings;
These are a few of my favorite things.

When the toast burns,
When some word stings,
When the pace is mad,
I try to remember my favorite things,And then I don't feel so sad!

"Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits!" (Psalm 103:2)

MaryMartha

See "A Few of My Favorite Things" for Thanksgiving 2008 (here).
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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Come, Ye Thankful People, Come



Come, ye thankful people, come,
Raise the song of harvest home.

All is safely gathered in
'Ere the winter storms begin.
God our Maker doth provide
For our wants to be supplied.
Come to God's own temple, come;
Raise the song of harvest home.


Tomorrow is Thanksgiving Day, celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November in the U.S. every year by proclamation of our chief executive. Included in President Barack Obama's speech on November 20 were these words: Today, we recall President George Washington, who proclaimed our first national day of public thanksgiving to be observed "by acknowledging with grateful hearts the many and signal favors of Almighty God." He also reminded us of Abraham Lincoln who in 1863 established it as an annual observance.

In contrast to the Christmas season, we do not have many Thanksgiving hymns. Given above is one of very few. It expresses deeper meaning as well, that we ourselves are the planting of the Lord. (See Isaiah 61:3)

All the world is God's own field,
Fruit unto His praise to yield;
Wheat and tares together sown
Unto joy or sorrow grown.
First the blade and then the ear,
Then the full corn shall appear.
Lord of Harvest, grant that we
Wholesome grain and pure may be.
--Henry Alford, English scholar and churchman, 1810-1871


May God's heart be made glad during our time of thankfulness!

MaryMartha

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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

A Thankful Heart

It's too bad that many people stop to give thanks only on the designated Thanksgiving Day—if even then, since many have reduced the occasion to "Turkey Day"! There is now a considerable amount of scientific evidence to support the idea that gratitude has a beneficial effect on our bodies and our minds. According to the research, we'd be happier and probably healthier if we were more grateful! Among the books written on the findings are:

The Psychology of Gratitude (Series in Affective Science), Robert A. Emmons and Michael E. McCullough, eds.

Thank You Power: Making the Science of Gratitude Work for You by Deborah Norville

Thanks! How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert Emmons
(Note: I am not familiar with all the writings of these authors, but am aware of their work; I'm neither recommending nor dismissing.)

There are many, many more books— specifically Christian books, journals, volumes of poetry, and inspirational books both "heavy" and light, self-help and popular psychology books, even cookbooks!

Of course, God knew all about the benefits of thankfulness before any of the researchers. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6, 7) "A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones." (Proverbs 15:30) Whoever said we have to wait for someone else to give us a cheerful look or good news? We are able to make our own!

"Thou hast given so much to me,
Give one thing more, - a grateful heart;
Not thankful when it pleaseth me,
As if Thy blessings had spare days,
But such a heart whose pulse may be Thy praise."
~George Herbert (1593-1633), a Welsh poet, member of
     parliament, and parish priest.

MaryMartha

Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright©1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved.
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Saturday, November 21, 2009

But Not Chocolate

Having been almost allergy-free all my life, I was surprised to find that I have now developed several. After eating an immoderate amount of shrimp one weekend, I discovered that I have a reaction to shellfish—nothing life-threatening, but very uncomfortable. Yes, I had experienced a little "blah" feeling from time to time, but had never before connected it to the real culprit.

Likewise nuts, both tree nuts and peanuts. I didn't know one could keep house without peanut butter, but I have discovered that it's possible. Difficult, but possible.

When I began to realize I had some food allergies, I also suspected chocolate. Do you know how much chocolate surrounds our daily lives? When I looked at a Christmas gift catalog and saw all the exotic chocolate gifts, I wanted to cry. That may seem silly, but I am thinking it should be one of the essential food groups. However, it seems not to be causing any trouble—at least in moderation. Do you suppose that's the lesson?

Some of my very favorite foods are going to be off the menu, at least for the time being. But not chocolate! I have to thank God, "who giveth us richly all things to enjoy!" (I Timothy 6:17)

Life is good!

MaryMartha


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Friday, November 20, 2009

Things Mama Taught Me: "If You Can't Say Something Nice . . .

You know the rest of the line, I'm sure! We'll say it altogether now, ". . . don't say anything at all." This was good advice for confrontational situations with my siblings, but later in life, I had to learn when to speak up and how to do it.

I sometimes read the online comments that follow news items—but much of the time I don't because so many of them are rude and vitriolic. What is it about anonymity that gives people license to be so intolerant and discourteous? Administrators won't allow obscene comments or threats, but just about anything else goes. I wonder if the writers really feel better after venting or if doing so just enhances their opinion that most other people are idiots, derelicts, or crooks.

And it's not only political and social figures that are blasted. I just finished reading some comparisons of mixes for baked goods. Among many appreciative and helpful comments, some people said:

"(The Such-and-Such goods) suck." [This may be inelegant, but not really as vulgar and offensive as it once was.)

"(Baked goods) are just as easy to make from scratch as they are from a box, and they taste about a thousand times better. Why so lazy, everybody???"

"This is ridiculous . . . poor quality."

"Anybody who has not tried (Such-and-Such brand) has no right to comment on the issue."

Who knew folks could feel so strongly about what we baked? Don't we believe that "nothing says lovin' like something from the oven"?

Many times opinions are merely interesting points of conversation, and as such they shouldn't be allowed to destroy good social interaction. But sometimes we find ourselves in difficult situations concerning things that truly matter, and we need to express an honest opinion even though it is negative in content. Perhaps we have been asked for it, or it becomes our moral duty to speak out. It's right to have our opinion, and sometimes it is right to express it strongly. But if you can't say something nice, find a nice way—a respectful, decent way—to say what must be said. That excludes angry controlling and name-calling and put-downs.

Do read "Don't Try to Force Your Opinion on Others" which is something else Mama taught me. (
Click here)
MaryMartha
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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Difficulties in Prayer

Does prayer seem more complicated to you now than when you first learned to pray? Why do you suppose that is?

One of the reasons prayer is sometimes so tangled with difficulty for us is that our requests are more complex as we grow older and our lives become more complicated. We may not ask just for daily bread, as Jesus taught His disciples to pray, but something more like, "Lord, you know I need a better job so I can support myself and my family. The price of gas has gone up so high that I need to work not too far from home. And I for sure don't want a boss like Mr. So-and-So at the Such-and-Such place. Oh, that reminds me, there's that problem with my insurance. Make those guys see the reasonableness of my position; my attorney says that I've got a good case, but they are just so stubborn. Speaking of stubbornness, please do something about my –– [kids, spouse, neighbor, trash hauler, or whoever is causing exasperation at the moment]. I've about had it. Oh wow, it's getting late! Wish I had more time to spend with you, Lord, but I've got to run. See ya!" If we're not careful, we can burden prayer with a recitation of our unhappy circumstances!

Another reason for perceived difficulty in prayer is that we simply make it too hard! Without minimizing the seriousness of prayer, we must recognize that we too often approach it as a laborious task! "The world is full of so-called prayer warriors who are prayer-ignorant. They're full of formulas and programs and advice, peddling techniques for getting what you want from God. Don't fall for that nonsense. This is your Father you are dealing with, and he knows better than you what you need. With a God like this loving you, you can pray very simply." Matthew 6:7)

Try this:
"God, here is my situation . . . I know that You care for me and everything that concerns me. I am confident that You'll attend to this, because Your Word says that I don't have to be preoccupied with getting things from You. If I keep the focus of my attention on the gain and glory of Your Kingdom, you will take the initiative to work out my situation. I am not going to be further distracted by this concern but am leaving it in Your hands. Please help me. Is there anything You want me to do to cooperate with Your plan? I am listening . . . "

Were God not the loving and generous Being that He is, He could have just preempted every smaller concern of ours. He might well have chosen to run everything by Himself for Himself. But it's just like Him to take what is His and to share it with us!

"What a Friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer!
Oh, what peace we often forfeit, oh, what needless pain we bear
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer!"
--Joseph Scriven, Irish poet, 1819-1886


MaryMartha


Scripture taken from The Message. Copyright © 2003 by Eugene H. Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group.

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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

From Whom Do All Blessings Flow?

The tax man cometh—again! I received a notice from the IRS a week or so ago, telling me that I owed many more hundreds of dollars on my taxes from two years ago. Off I went with all my paperwork to the tax preparer. He looked at the papers, and was puzzled. He then spent almost an hour on the phone with the IRS office, most of that time "on hold."

While we were waiting, a handyman came in who was lamenting his experience with the scrap metal dealers. "He worked the scale with his foot, I know he did!" he insisted. "But then they paid me twenty-five cents a pound instead of ten for half a ton, so I know that's karma working." (Not a good understanding of the term, but that's what he said; I guess he had to attribute his good fortune to something!)

Back to my taxes: A special worksheet is used for figuring part of my income, so there is a "discrepancy" between what I report and what is reported by the payer. When the tax man had finished talking to the agent and had faxed all the documentation (again!), everything was satisfactory with my return and I do not owe more money—plus interest and a penalty. Our first reaction was thankfulness: "Thank you so much, ma'am; God bless you!" to the agent, and "Praise God!" to the Lord. From Him—not from some force out there determining what I deserve by how I behaved in a previous existence!

MaryMartha


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